The most probable advice you can get is to take your relationship one day at a time. This is quite understandable when you get to realize that great things always start small and just like the acorn grows to become a mighty oak tree in due process of time, your love relationship or affair must also wait out its own time to develop and grow to become what you expect it to be- a loving, romantic, enjoyable, resourceful and fulfilling one.
This is one secret to building and maintaining a healthy love affair or relationship with the opposite sex.
Even though we are all in a world where we want anything and everything NOW, quick fixes, in an instant and immediately without any delay… you must learn to give your relationship time to grow today if you are to reap the rewards and benefits for a long time to come in the future.
How do you take your relationship one day at a time?
1. Organization and Discipline. Both of you must introduce order into the way you manage your relationship and grow your affection in addition to the love and friendship you share together.
This does not in any way presuppose that you must become rigid at all. Introduce some fun and zest into the things you do as you get to relate and interact with each other.
Take time out to enjoy the journey and the process of making your relationship work.
2. Know One Another. Make out time and create the opportunity to know your lover, boyfriend, girlfriend, partner or Spouse and also get to be known. Understanding one another matters greatly.
There is a need to discover how your friend who you are involved with in your relationship or love affair ‘ticks’. Share your personal dreams, goals, life’s ambitions, etc and of course your expectations over your relationship together.
3. Committed Work. Investments of time, money, knowledge, talents, and other valuable resources is a must if you are to enjoy your relationship and watch it grow and blossom to your heart’s delight.
The place of engaging in committed work and giving sacrificially by the application of your Self in order to build a healthy relationship helps greatly.
4. Understand What a Relationship is. It is all about your partner and you, your emotions, your life’s goals, your resources, cooperation and teamwork to mention a few.
Disappointing as this might read, a lot of boys and girls, guys and ladies, men and women who are involved in a love relationship or are having an affair DO NOT really comprehend what a relationship is all about.
This is one reason why breakups and separation, divorce and single parenting is on the increase today. You must be mature, responsible and accountable to get involved in an affair or consider going in to a relationship at all.
Above all, you must realize that there is no love relationship that is immune to crisis, troubles or breakup. As such, you need to master your emotions greatly and keep it under check.
This also contributes to the need to take your relationship one day at a time. Get to know one another and do not rush things or be in haste. Also, you can break down some of the tips shared above into smaller processes, tasks or assignments which both of you can jointly undertake.
All that have been shared above are for your consideration and digest and should provide some useful tips and insights into what is required of you in your relationship if your desire is to build it up one day at a time or you are just starting out newly in a love relationship or an affair with that special someone.